19 responses to “the gift of stiff competition: what to do when your bright idea is someone else’s too”

  1. Amy

    Yes! I’ve noticed in the last 4-6 weeks or so that my favourite bloggers have written posts that have been floating around in my brain. I hadn’t gotten around to writing them yet because I’m working on another project, and for a split second, I thought, “Darn, they beat me to it!” But what came after that was, “Wow! I’ve got similar ideas to *these* awesome people?!” Crazy confidence boost! And I realized/remembered that virtually every topic out there has been addressed in numerous ways, each appealing to different kinds of people and each sparking the same epiphany from a different angle.

  2. Chloe

    Yes! I’ve actually started training my competition. I work as a birth doula, which is not at all a familiar concept in my region. So I started training other women to do the same work I do. Each of us is different so each of us attracts our own clients, but having 8 people talk about being a doula is more effective for education and advertising than just me. Plus we can help each other out when needed. It was lonely being the only doula…with “competition” I’ve been so much more on top of my game!

  3. Ellie Di

    I love this! I had honestly never thought about what competition means to me as an up-and-coming tiny business outside of the traditional ideas that I’d get squeezed out. I know a lot of people in my arena, and it’s a huge relief to finally be able to relax back into feeling friendly instead of slightly wary.

  4. TotalShowImage

    On the other side, I was shocked when I was ‘friends’ with someone on fb that had a similar business, when I started talking to her about it. “I won’t talk about anything business related and you will find most small business will not share their sources or information either” Wow I was surprised. I am hoping that is not the standard answer. I have kept the belief that all of us hard working mom’s out there need to stick together in the entrepreneurial jungle out there. Glad there are some of you that agree!

  5. Gina Bell

    Your post title sure caught my attention today Tara. Just yesterday I noticed some buzz building about a new co-marketing collaborative kinda like the one I’ve been leaning in to launch. At first I thought “crap! they beat me to the punch!”… but then, I felt my entire presence dig in as in okay 1) let’s get clear about how we are different and, 2) how is my idea better ;) I was excited before but now I have a fire lit under me. Yes, as surprising as it is, competition can be a great, great thing. xo

  6. Chantelle

    I always strikes me as odd when one small business person won’t help another. My supplies are mostly organic and sustainable fabrics, so what kind of green business would I be if I refused to help someone gain access to these products? I feel like the more people using the products I use means a wider variety and better prices. As well as the other things you mentioned, wider availablity of the product will highten customer awareness.
    Feeling threatened by others ideas seems to have it’s root cause in insecurity about the value of what you are offering yourself. If you feel great about what you make or the service you provide then you feel better about competitiion.

  7. Sarah

    Thank you for this read. I myself have been stewing over community NOT competition. You helped me quite a bit.

  8. Lea

    This is so awesome, Tara, it makes me cry! (Which is what i do when i come upon a great inspiring truth!) I have so much to express in response that I will write a blog post! … ;) TBC

  9. Steve Rice

    Love this perspective, Tara. I think you have something there.

    Actually our local coffee shop (Broadway Café) in the Westport area of Kansas City, MO actually put the Starbucks (which had prime corner real estate on the busy intersection) out of business because of their loyal fan base.

    Broadway was just 2 doors down, but the micro community within that neighborhood in KC kept one open and the other folded…no worries, though, Starbucks stayed open a mile or so up the street. :)

    I like the differentiation you made between the large business raising awareness that the smaller businesses can benefit from. I’m going to see my business that way from now on. Thanks.

  10. Stephanie, Fairground Media

    Wise words! I actually think the web development industry is extraordinary about community/collaboration among competitors. Maybe because it’s just so *big* (client needs/preferences range so widely). Anyway, I’ve always felt very lucky for that.

  11. Jennifer Squires

    There’s a phrase that’s been on my mind for most of this year and I couldn’t help hear it repeatedly as I read your article on competition:
    A rising tide floats all boats.
    Grow, be inspired, and learn from your competition! What’s your favourite way to keep in touch with like-minded coaches?

    1. Adrienn

      A rising tide floats all boats. What a great quote!
      Tara, I found you at the right time!
      So much to learn!

  12. Evelyn

    I have a bed and breakfast in Brooklyn via airbnb. At first I noticed that there are a lot more listings at airbnb and I got a little afraid that I will not be booked. Bbut I also know that with almost 100 positive reviews my reputation will make someone stay at my place. Now I’m actually helping friends set up their places as sometimes I have to turn people away. I think part of my fear is that there isn’t enough. We don’t believe in abundance. When there is enough for everyone. And I know I provide a different service than others.

  13. Lisa Frideborg Lloyd

    Bring it on! It would be totally BORING without competition :D

  14. Christiane

    Competition inspires me…I learn from these people ;) Great post!